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little shopper October 31, 2008

Filed under: Josiah David, Traci — jimbaxa @ 9:33 am

Yesterday Josiah and I went grocery shopping and he had the ladies admiring his shopping skills.  I would tell him what to grab and he LOVES putting it in the cart.  He walks next to the cart and waits for the “we need that!”  Imagine walking down an aisle and seeing a 2 1/2 foot boy putting things in the cart!  It is rather funny and adorable.

We also bought shoes!  This little boy is growing and needed some shoes.  Thankfully the cheapest pair (why get the nice pair when he is not going to be in them long because he is growing fast?) were the light up ones and, to Josiah’s delight, they had Thomas the train on them.  Now, he doesn’t know who Thomas is, he just likes the fact that there is a “blue choo-choo” on his shoes.  He also got some winter boots!  I bought the blue ones since blue is a nice gender neutral color and Eva could wear them when she gets older.  I showed them to Jim and much to my surprise “mr. she will be a tom-boy” thought that they were too boy like!  Go figure!!!  They are a darker, bright blue and I will admit you can tell they are boyish, but I told Jim “she will have snow pants on.”  It just surprised me because he is always saying she will be a tom-boy and I keep saying she seems like she will be a girly-girl.  She and Josiah’s activity level are EXTREME opposites in utero!  Josiah would kick back if you poked my stomach, she just moves out of the way and is laid back.

We decided to get a rotisserie chicken at the store and the guy behind the counter asked if Josiah would like a cookie.  Josiah very excitedly and sweetly replied “yeah.”  The guy came back with a cookie and Josiah said “manks.”  Then a man came up behind us and asked Josiah if the cookie was for him and Josiah looked at the man, smiled and said “yeah!”  The man melted and told Josiah how sweet he was and that he could keep the cookie.  I told Josiah that it was time to go and he said good-bye to his two new “friends” and enjoyed his cookie as we walked to the checkout.  It was encouraging to witness my little guy willingness and his attitude in being ok with sharing.  Something we have been working on for a LONG time.  I pray that it wasn’t a “one time fluke” and that the Lord works in this little boy’s heart!

 

Dr. update 38 weeks – recommended for women October 30, 2008

Filed under: Eva Grace, Josiah David, Traci — jimbaxa @ 7:00 pm

We saw the doctor today!  After waiting 30 minutes we finally got in!  I asked my doctor about morning sickness since that seems to have come back.  :P    He said that sometimes that it can come back and asked if I wanted meds.  I said no since we are so close to the end and all meds can have an effect on Eva.  I gained 1 lb in the past week, which was surprising to me since I wasn’t keeping as much down, but it is a good amount.  He did check and I am still 1 centimeter, but I did efface another 10% making it 60%!!!  I was excited about that!!!  Why?  Because with Josiah I only made it to 50%, so I have progressed farther already!  The doctor also said he could feel Eva’s head!  He didn’t say if she was engaged (stuck head down… which is good) or not.  He also said her heart rate was 130, getting lower, but I was informed that sometimes a baby’s heartbeat slows down at the end.  Oh, and Josiah was ESTATIC to hear her heartbeat!  He kept on telling the doctor “baby Eee!”

 

Tucking in October 30, 2008

Filed under: Josiah David — jimbaxa @ 7:42 am

Josiah is becoming quite… responsible!  Yes, responsible.  Last night he tucked himself in bed and said “g’night” to Jim and I.  We told him it was bed time and gave him warnings before that that bedtime was coming.  So when it came he climbed into bed, asked for “hus” (hugs and kisses) and grabbed his blanket, dog and book and went to bed.  Yes, he sleeps with a book!  We don’t know why, but he just started this.  He cuddles with a book in one hand and the dog in the other.  Now, the dog has been a “necessary” part of sleeping since he was a little baby, like 4 months I think.  That dog has been a sleeping buddy for a long time!  We have to take it with us if he is going to be sleeping somewhere else.  Please don’t get me wrong though, he asks nicely and with great manners for the dog.  He doesn’t demand it.  He will go to bed without it, but he prefers the comfort of an old friend.

 

Giggles and squeals October 30, 2008

Filed under: Uncategorized — jimbaxa @ 7:35 am

Yesterday we put Eva’s carseat in the car and Josiah was… well, excited would be an understatement.  He was jumping up and down and was talking about how he gets to sit by the baby.  I think it is becoming more real to him now, he still won’t fully comprehend it until we bring Eva home, but he gets that there will at least be a baby around the house for a little while.

 

From Truth in Love October 28, 2008

Filed under: Truth — jimbaxa @ 12:18 pm

Two giants have officially cast their lots in the California marriage debate. Both Google and Apple have donated healthy sums of money ($100,000 and $140,000 respectively) to the effort to defeat California’s Proposition 8 in the upcoming election. Both companies are committed to promoting so-called “Gay” marriage. In a recent article, Apple made their position clear:

“Apple was among the first California companies to offer equal rights and benefits to our employees’ same-sex partners, and we strongly believe that a person’s fundamental rights – including the right to marry – should not be affected by their sexual orientation,”

Google cofounder, Sergey Brin, added:

“While we respect the strongly held beliefs that people have on both sides of this argument, we see this fundamentally as an issue of equality. We hope that California voters will vote no on Proposition 8 – we should not eliminate anyone’s fundamental rights, whatever their sexuality, to marry the person they love,”

This is quite interesting. Brin makes two critical flaws in here. First, he frames the argument as one of denial of fundamental rights, yet he says he respects the strongly held beliefs of those who commit such a travesty. Since when do those who trample on the “fundamental rights” of others deserve respect? Brin’s second, and most crucial logical flaw is his insistence that this is merely a question of people being able to marry the person they love. This is a common fallacy in the homosexual marriage debate. Allow me to demonstrate.  Click ->here<- for the rest.

 

38 weeks! October 28, 2008

Filed under: Eva Grace — jimbaxa @ 7:48 am

Eva has really plumped up. She weighs about 6.8 pounds and she’s over 19 1/2 inches long. She has a firm grasp, which you’ll soon be able to test when you hold her hand for the first time! Her organs have matured and are ready for life outside the womb.

Wondering what color her eyes will be? We may not be able to tell right away. If she’s born with brown eyes, they’ll likely stay brown. If she’s born with steel gray or dark blue eyes, they may stay gray or blue or turn green, hazel, or brown by the time she’s 9 months old. That’s because a child’s irises (the colored part of the eye) may gain more pigment in the months after she’s born, but they usually won’t get “lighter” or more blue. (Green, hazel, and brown eyes have more pigment than gray or blue eyes.)  Most likely she will have blue or aqua colored eyes.  Jim has true blue and mine go back and forth between blue and green, hence aqua.

 

the cake October 27, 2008

Filed under: Uncategorized — jimbaxa @ 5:46 pm

A dear friend reminded me that I did not post a picture of Josiah’s birthday cake like I promised.  Sorry.  Here is the car cake.

 

don’t cry October 27, 2008

Filed under: Josiah David — jimbaxa @ 10:35 am

As you may know, Josiah LOVES the movie Tarzan.  In the movie there is a song that the Gorilla, Kala, sings to Tarzan a lullaby.  Josiah has started to sing this song when it is playing.

Here are the orginal words:

Come, stop your crying.  It’ll be alright.  Just take my hand, hold it tight.  I will protect you from all around you.  I will be here, don’t you cry.

Josiah’s version:

Stop cry.  Right.  Hand.  Tight.  MMMM, you.  Don’t cry.

He is a precious little boy!

 

Doctor Update October 24, 2008

Filed under: Eva Grace — jimbaxa @ 9:33 am

Had my appointment yesterday afternoon.  Eva’s heart rate is still the same, but the doctor isn’t concerned at all.  He said “She is just a happy baby.”  I am guessing that means content and she doesn’t move a lot (Josiah acted like he had a continuous does of caffine), which is nice for when I can sleep.  If she moved a lot that would make her heart rate go up a bit, but she seems content to just relax and enjoy her last few weeks of the “hot tub.”

Recommended for just the ladies - The doctor also said I am 50% effaced and 1 centimeter dilated.  Now, with Josiah I was 50% and 2 cent. for about 4 weeks, so I am not thinking I will be going soon.  We are going to focus on getting 20 min. of walking a day minimum in hopes that that will spur on contractions and get things moving so I wouldn’t have to be induced.

 

October 24, 2008

Filed under: Josiah David — jimbaxa @ 5:22 am

Josiah enjoyed his birthday celebration.  We didn’t take too many pictures, but he enjoyed himself!